tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3764879550928350964.post6720784851825571649..comments2023-09-11T05:44:03.241-04:00Comments on Ooh LaLa: LossRedusRNhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13644479120915090244noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3764879550928350964.post-8823867033203754052011-09-07T16:46:56.304-04:002011-09-07T16:46:56.304-04:00I totally agree, Michelle! Miscarriage is just not...I totally agree, Michelle! Miscarriage is just not something you can relate to AT ALL unless you have simply been there. I'm a nurse, so I spend my days trying to relate to others, but this is one time when you can't put your feet in someone's shoes. My problem was that after a week or two, life went on, and everyone just kinda assumed I was okay since it wasn't the main topic of dicussion. Inside I was dying. Thank you for being so open and honest about your struggles. I know you are helping people through your blog! Sending love right back at ya!RedusRNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13644479120915090244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3764879550928350964.post-13668694313032889592011-09-07T11:35:39.647-04:002011-09-07T11:35:39.647-04:00Congrats on your pregnancy! It's so hard to go...Congrats on your pregnancy! It's so hard to go through such loss. I agree with what Ken said about pain transforming, it doesn't go away, but it transforms. It's weird, but sometimes I'm jealous of women who lost their little ones later on, and that they had a baby to hold and bury, to me my loss seems insignificant compared to theirs. I know that's not true, and I'm sure my pain would be magnified if I lost an infant at birth. When I was younger if someone I knew mentioned they had a miscarriage or were having trouble getting pregnant I felt like they were broken or something was wrong with them because it was so taboo to me (and seemed like a rarity), it just wasn't talked about. I hate that about miscarriage and infertility - I plan to talk openly to my son about my loss when he is old enough. It's SO common. I'm glad things are going well for you, sending love your way!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06422603807183544866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3764879550928350964.post-42341140326670121012011-09-01T20:13:21.750-04:002011-09-01T20:13:21.750-04:00thanks, kace, i love you too.thanks, kace, i love you too.RedusRNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13644479120915090244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3764879550928350964.post-23417565911519389582011-09-01T18:40:04.698-04:002011-09-01T18:40:04.698-04:00I've been thinking of you during these last fe...I've been thinking of you during these last few weeks. Miscarriage is a horrible thing and no one ever really thinks of it as a tradgedy. Just because you never hold that baby or see it, etc. it's still very real, life was growing inside of you. Sigh, I love you!Kacihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17374229462886436966noreply@blogger.com